The 9 Regrets You Don’t Want to Have

Life is short.

For some, this is the moment to join in happiness, a moment where they become proud of the decision they make in their lifestyle.

Sa kabilang banda, yung iba ay puno ng regrets and blame themselves for not making that call several years ago. And I know this is giving you some anxiety.

But at some points, please don’t think that it’s too late.  Pwedi mo pang baguhin o gawin ang mga bagay na akala mo e huli na, o “huli kana.”

A life of regrets isn’t a life one should aspire for. We all have one shot of existing, so why not make the most of it?

Life is a continuous learning process, you will never know where life is going to take you, so keep going.

This blog will take a look at 8 regrets you should not have in the next few years. And why you should take that step today.

#1 Letting other People Control your Life

You only get one life to live, so don’t let anyone else control it.

“You are the only one who knows what’s best for you, so make sure you’re living the life you want to live.”

#2 Waiting for the Right Time

“We all want to be successful, but success doesn’t come easy.”

Madalas, gumagawa tayo ng mabigat na desisyon at nag t-take risks. Kung ikaw yung taong naghihintay ng perfect timing para simulan ang mga bagay na gusto mo, baka maghintay ka nga ng matagal o baka hindi mo na ito masisimulan. 😊

The truth is, there’s never a perfect time. You just have to go for it.

Isa sa mga paborito kong quotes ay ang…
“The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second-best time is now.”

#3 Not Helping Others

May mga tao na isa sa mga malaking pinagsisisihan nila ay ang hindi pagtulong sa iba kahit na nagkaroon na sila ng pagkakataon.

Lahat tayo ay may mga pagkakataong tumulong sa iba, ito man ay sa pamamagitan ng pagboboluntaryo sa paggawa ng isang bagay, pag s-share ng blessings, pagbibigay o pagtuturo ng kaalaman, o simpleng pakikinig.

Ngunit madalas, hinahayaan nating mawala ang mga pagkakataong ito dahil masyado tayong abala o may kinalaman sa sarili.

Kung may pagkakataon kang tumulong sa isang tao, kahit sa maliit na paraan, take it.

It could make a world of difference for them – and especially for you.

#4 Not Making Plans

Never mong maa-achieve ang anumang bagay kung hindi ka magpa-plano.

Kung hindi mo man maabot ito, at least sinubukan mo. Mas mabuti na iyon rather than not trying at all.

#5 Not Taking Action on Your Dreams

Yes. Not taking action on your dreams.

And I know na karamihan sa atin ito kanilang pinagsisisihan, ang hindi pagkilos sa kanilang mga pangarap.

Kung mayroon kang pangarap, huwag hayaang manatiling hanggang pangarap lang – kumilos at gawin ito.

Sooner, magpapasalamat ka sa  sarili mo na buti ginawa mo! and you’ll never regret taking action on your dreams!

#6 Refusing to Take Risks

“One of the biggest regrets people have is not taking risks.”

Naranasan mo na ba yung gustong-gusto mo na gawin ang isang bagay pero natatakot ka sa pweding mangyari. Or, you are afraid on your own thoughts?

Nandyan ang napakaraming “what ifs.”

Naiintindihan kita. Been there, done that. 😊

Pero isipin mo, what if nagtagumpay ka? What if, nalampasan mo ang struggles? And What if, pagkatapos mong subukan at mag take ng risks, naging successful ka?

Walang nakakaalam sa kung ano ang pweding mangyari. Ang mahalaga, sinubukan mo. Hindi ka man magtagumpay sa una, pero natuto ka.

Make that as your first step to making your dreams come true. Kaya mo yan. 😊

#7 Not Learning from Mistakes

“We all make mistakes, but it’s important to learn from them so that we don’t continue making the same ones over and over again.”

Kung paulit-ulit mong nagagawa ang parehong pagkakamali, magsuri, gumawa ng paraan at alamin kung ano ang mga posibleng dahilan.

#8 Giving Up

Madaling sumuko kapag nahihirapan na, but it’s not worth it in the long run at magsisisi ka lang sa huli kung gagawin mo ito.

It can be hard to keep your motivation at times, but never forget that your goals are what drive you.   

Kailangan mo ang mga dahilan na iyon para magpatuloy at nandiyan sila para sa iyo kapag naging mahirap ang mga bagay-bagay.

People have a way of telling themselves that giving up was a good idea because it felt like the right thing to do at the time.

If this sounds like something you’ve done before or are thinking about doing now, don’t give up on yourself!

#9 Not Having a Passion

A lot of people go through life without ever finding something they’re passionate about.

Yung bang gigising ka sa araw araw na parang may kulang pa din kahit na ano pa ang gawin mo? Walang excitement na nararamdaman sa anumang bagay.

Maybe, there’s something wrong because passion is what makes us feel alive and it’s what drives us to do great things.

So kung wala kang passion, find one. It will make all the difference in the world.

Kung nahihirapan ka sa alinman sa mga ito, hindi ka nag-iisa. Ngunit higit na mahalagang tandaan, hindi pa huli ang lahat para magbago, you can become that better person as long as you believe it and take active steps toward making it happen.

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