By definition, confidence is a state of mind… the belief that you will make it.
It’s a belief that you will succeed in what you are doing and fulfill your goals.
But here’s the thing and we want you to think about this thing harder.
Winners and Losers have the same goals.
Because as you will see, nobody’s goal is…” to not make it.”
So, if that is the case, winners and losers all have the same GOAL. Isn’t?
Ano ba talaga ang ginagawa ng confidence? Saan nanggagaling ang confidence?
CONFIDENCE GROWS WHEN YOU HIT A NEW HIGH CEILING.
This means, there is a very particular place where is confidence from, it happens in just a single moment, you’ll probably experience it multiple times in your life but never actually realize it.
Ang isa sa pinakamahirap na aspeto ng pagbuo ng iyong tiwala sa sarili at pagpapabuti ng iyong buhay ay hindi kung paano ito gagawin, kundi kung paano ito gagawin at sisimulan kapag alam mo na.
Naiintindihan ko na kung minsan ay maaaring mahirap gawin ang first step, kaya gusto kutang bigyan ng ilang guide sa kung ano ang dapat mong pagtuunan ng pansin sa pagbuo ng iyong confidence.
Whether you just want to get started or are already on your way, here are some things you can do right now to fake confidence until you make it.
Let’s start this with…
#1 LOSE THE NEGATIVE SELF-TALK
“The first step to faking confidence is losing negative self-talk.”
Here’s the catch, If you don’t believe in yourself, no one else will.
So, start to lose negative self-talk by convincing yourself that you will make it.
Sa tuwing may negative thinking na pumapasok sa iyong isip, palitan ito ng positibo. Pagkatapos ay gawin ang iyong bagong self-talk. Magsabi ng mga salita katulad ng “I can do it!” best tip is, humarap sa salamin, huminga ng malalim at sabihin ito ng paulit-ulit. 😊
#2 STOP COMPARING YOURSELF WITH OTHERS
“Constantly comparing yourself to others is a recipe for disaster.”
Hindi mo lang pinapahirapan ang iyong sarili sa bagay na ito kundi hinahayaan mo din na missed mo yung mga importane o masasayang bagay na dumadaan sa buhay mo.
Sa halip na intindihin, unahin o punahin kung ano ang ginagawa ng iba, focus on your own journey.
Be grateful for your own successes and learn from your failures. Over time, you’ll start to feel more confident in who you are and what you’re capable of.
#3 TAKE OWNERSHIP OF YOUR MISTAKES
Yes. Lahat tayo ay nagkakamali, ngunit kung paano natin ito i-handle ang mas mahalaga.
Sabi nga ng isang quote…
“You may not be able to control every situation and its outcome, but you can control your attitude and how you deal with it.”
If you take ownership of your screw-ups, ito ay nangangahulugang kaya mong aminin na nagkamali ka, and from there, natututo ka.
Makukuha nito ang paggalang ng mga nakapaligid sa iyo, at sa lalong madaling panahon, magsisimula kang maniwala sa sarili mo.
#4 DO SOMETHING NEW EVERY DAY
Trying new things is a great way to build confidence.
It can be something as small as taking a different route to work o pagsubok sa mga ibang bagay na alam mong makakabuti sa iyo.
By pushing yourself to do something new every day, you’ll become more comfortable with taking risks and stepping outside your comfort zone.
I hope these things will help you build your confidence and face the new path of your life.
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