Are you someone who needs to boost your self-confidence?
Well, you are in the right place. In this topic, I’m going to teach you how to build your confidence.
And I know, likas naman sa atin na maging mahiyain pero kung meron kang self-confidence mas nakakaangat ka sa iba.
Dahil ang self-confidence ay makakatulong sayo to build a relationship with people outside your circle.
Na makakatulong din sayo with your personal growth, and makakatulong din sa ibang tao kung ikaw ay may mission to help and give value to the people.
So, let’s talk about the 5 tips on how to boost your self-confidence.
Appreciate The Value Of Confidence
You need to appreciate the value of confidence. Ang self- confidence naman ay isang skill na pwede mo matutunan.
Isipin mo yung mga tao na mataas ang self-confidence, nagagawa nila ang lahat ng bagay na gustuhin nila.
At sila yung mga tao na nachieve yung mga goals nila sa buhay. Hindi sila takot to explore new things.
It is easy for them to win friends. And to pursue yung gusto talaga nila maabot. Mas madali ang buhay, kung taglay mo yung pagkakaroon ng mataas na confidence.
And kung ikaw naman ay isang Entrepreneur, it will help you with your future projects.
Just think of it, The more confident you become, the more opportunities will come your way.
Fake It Until You Make It
Number 2 tip on how to boost your self-confidence. Whenever you feel that you are unconfident, just fake it until you make it.
What do I mean by that? For example, first-time mo gumawa ng video for your youtube channel.
Just pretend in front of the camera na ikaw ay confident hanggang matapos mo yung presentation mo.
Because in observer eyes or sa mga audience there is no difference between fake confidence and real confidence.
Hindi nila malalaman kung nagppretend ka lang pala but in reality, you are faking it.
So when you do this continuously, hindi mo na mapapansin na you’re not faking it anymore. In that way, you learn to be more confident in real.
Take Baby Steps
If you want to start boosting your self-confidence you can actually take baby steps.
Like filming yourself on your mobile phone camera. You may feel not so good at first kasi nga hindi ka kumportable pero later on makakasanayan mo din sya.
Put it in daily practice. Taking baby steps like uploading short videos on Instagram, TikTok, Whatsapp videos.
Then send it to your close friends. Or even you can create an actual youtube video and upload it on unlisted.
Or simply ask random people in the street, where the nearest coffee shop is.
Do it every day when you are outside. In that way, you can overcome your fear.
At maiisip mo na hindi naman pala ganon kahirap makipag usap sa ibang tao. That’s number 3 on how you can build your confidence.
Everyone Is Friendly But You Have To Go First
Generally, people are friendly. You just have to make the first move.
Everyone is just scared to make the first hello, simpleng kumusta ka? or simply ask any question.
Sa lahat ng aspeto ng buhay, ang simula ang pinakamahirap na part sa una. Gaya na lang sa trabaho, wala naman nagsimula sa madali, its a learning process.
Habang tumatagal nagiging expert ka na sa ginagawa mo dahil ginagawa mo sya ng paulit ulit.
So my tip to you, practice how to go first or to make the first move to develop your self-confidence.
Confidence Can Be Learned
As I said earlier self-confidence is a skill, you just have to be willing to learn.
Kung gusto mo talaga ma- improve yung pagkakaroon ng self-confidence, maraming paraan kagaya ng mga nabanggit ko.
There’s a lot of Youtube videos nowadays, na pwede mo panoorin at i- apply sa sarili mo like Charisma On Command, and you can also read a book How to win Friends and influence and people.
This is the last tip na maiisheshare ko sayo, and I hope na i- practice mo sya consistently. And I really hope na makatulong ito sayo ng malaki on how to boost your self-confidence.
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